Of course there is the daily non-stop chatting with the gang.  Most recently Jophiel who loves helping us become empowered through joy and seeing the beauty of ALL that we are surrounded with.  Being more at peace and not caught up in the daily grind so to speak has allowed me to be more receptive and clear thinking of my boundaries (with their guidance), what I truly desire (vs. what I ought to be, have and/or do).

Now I know all of you can’t invade our island or wish to, but what this ‘little’ exercise has taught me, we can all live this way IF we chose to:

The marshes surrounding our island

Take Life in Stride

Enjoy Moments NOW and not plan for them

Stop and smell those blooming roses

Enjoy the blips (Gabi rolling in duck poop for example)

Allow self to be grudgy on any given day

B.R.E.A.T.H.E.

Revel in the peace

SMILE genuinely

Know that ‘stuff’ doesn’t make your life better, you do

All else does seem to fall into place when we place our trust outside ourselves and allow events to unfold vs. constantly planning or in my case, over-planning events or outcomes of any given trajectory. If something doesn’t work out, that’s OKAY – just means something better is in store – yes REALLY.  Remember, this if nothing else, you DESERVE the life you desire – now go get it!

Use this Askfirmation™ to get you going:

Why Do I deserve the life I desire?

Okay, not smelling the roses, but enjoying the beauty of the beach.

Here’s a very simple tool that will help with all of the above:

Take Your Hands

Your beautiful hands

Place them over your beautiful heart

Your beautiful heart

Now

Breathe

for at least ten repetitions of inhale/exhale

This very simple and easy-to-do exercise:

1. calms your entire being

2. reconnects you to your heart’s wisdom and see the truth of any situation

3. allows you to trust what still is remaining

Feel free to use this method for as long as you wish, foreva even, or until you have a good handle on how your intuition filters in and what it feels like for you.  Remember, we are ALL intuitive, but our discernment variables shift from one to another to be as unique as we are.

See? that wasn’t so hard now, was it?

If we cut ourselves, it’s an obvious ‘boo-boo’ – quick get me a band-aid and some neosporin!

If we fall off the monkey bars (like I did as a child) off to the hospital we go, bone gets reset, cast put on and we begin to heal.

What about those ‘things’ that we aren’t aware of until a spotlight is shown on it and perhaps sending us into that proverbial tailspin?

That is a different kettle of fish, isn’t it?  This is where Raphael is paramount to aid in the judging, especially of self, and letting go of the drama and situation and simply being.  It’s through that being that we can pull ourselves out of the thick of things see the situation for what it really is (without finger pointing I might add) and allow the entire scenario to unfold peacefully and heal.

Heal through sending waves of love to all involved.  Ahhh… feel the energies of Raphael’s healing and unconditional love waft towards you and wrap you up in the biggest hug you’ve ever had.  He and his legions surround you and all involved to soften the edges, ease into ‘being’ and see the lesson of it all.  The lessons can and are vast and varied, so be open to seeing various ‘solutions’ to a very happy ending.

Seep into the photo below and allow the beauty of nature all of that luscious green to envelop you in healing.  Feel the energies of the purple transmuting  anything you feel weighing on you.  Stay silent and present within the photo as the gang takes you on a journey, like never before.

Feel the energies of Raphael & Zadkiel waft over you

Of course, you may always use the subtle and empowering energies from the Angel Essential Sprays to assist in the loving healing that you desire, whenever you desire it. I’ve used Raphael’s spray at expos when my voice turns hoarse from speaking so much and within moments, voice is back to full throttle, which is a great thing when seeing over 40 clients in a single weekend!

You may also use the energies of a crystal, emerald specifically to connect deeper with Raphael and take healing with you wherever you go.

No matter your healing vehicle of choice, know that Raphael can be with you in a moment’s notice to assist in all that you desire.

This isn’t going to be the usual, quirky, uplifting post I’m known for.  We’ve hit a bit of a snafu in our world.  One of our dogs is now destined to go to a new forever home.

Both of our dogs were rescues. The second, Winston, unfortunately, by all puzzle piecing together, was a victim of severe neglect; no housebreaking, no known commands and socialization?  What’s that?

We’re at the two-year mark of him being with us and major strides have been made; completely housebroken, knows commands (sit, shake, potty, big potty – figure it out), socialization within his pack (the family, our other dog and cats) is great; and yet his anxiety towards new people cannot be broken – or it is certainly beyond my areas of being Mrs. Doolittles daughter.

After speaking at length with a behaviorist, I’ve come to realize that obedience is extremely different from what is ingrained.  He needs a quiet home.  Large property. Loads of love to be continued in order to thrive.  So instead of thinking I’ve failed him, which I did at great lengths, I’ve come to terms that we’ve been fostering him for HIS perfect home.  We’ve gotten him ready for the rest of his life.

So we bid farewell to Winston, our Winnie, Big Boy and are manifesting his perfect place where he can run free and be as a dog should be; loved, protected and honored for who they are.

We love you Big Boy.

While now living in a remote barrier island off the coast of Virginia, I was hardly in a position to aid in a physical  manner, but felt compelled to do something.  So I did what I do best; chat with the gang. Raphael came jumping in and offered his and his legions service.  Of course I gladly accepted and sent them all on their way to aid in the first responders aid and to those that were personally affected by the blasts.

I went deep into meditation and saw the scenes as they unfolded. This wasn’t terribly difficult as I have been battling bronchitis the past week and when I’m sick, I get rather loopy (as my family calls it) and spend more time chatting.

I digress, sorry, still loopy…. I saw Raphael spreading his green healing wings wide and his heart beaming on Boylston Street and nearby areas.  I witnessed his gang rushing to the aid of those in most need; aiding in giving strength to those carrying another.  Offering inner strength to allow those glorious folks a sense of calm enabling them to do what they do best; help another in need.

Use the energies of Archangel Raphael’s symbol and card below to send

loving, healing energies not only to yourself, but others.

I also invite you to recite:

I’m sorry

Please forgive me

I love you

Thank you

This is what is known as Ho’oponono. An ancient Hawaiian healing technique. It is of the belief, of Ho’oponono, that we are responsible for all  in our universe.  Yes, this too includes the bombing in Boston yesterday. Bottom line? HIGHLY effective, so easy to use.  As you send healing out, you are also receiving healing within.  It’s a win-win in my book. I highly recommend you read, Zero Limits by Joe Vitale to read more.  It will take you on a journey, his journey, of implementing Ho’oponono in his life and the affects thus far.

Sit with Raphael.  Feel his wings wrap around you, hugging and loving you.  Feel your heart lighten and expand the more you sit with him. Feel your eyes brighten, the heaviness on your shoulders diminish and your heart beaming forth in a very soft, but empowered way.

Yes, he is that good as is the symbol he gave us.

I wish you healing on all levels now and always,

Chris

I honored me, my life at the moment and didn’t push myself more than I already was with clients, family and oh yeah – moving.

I knew myself enough that any post, no matter how many times I edited it, would not be worthy for you to read.  That simple.

So I loved myself enough, and you (you can thank me later) for not posting.

On we now go – to our regular reading channel and I promise to continue to only offer fun, loving, joyful and of course empowering posts that help you strengthen your connection to the gang better and raising your vibration so you too can live that life you desire…

As our title states, ‘It’ All About Self Love Baby!’

Think about it, when you feel rested, you are more energized, have more to give, are more present and odds are more joyful and more apt to receive any gift that is being bestowed upon you.

This is you being empowered.

Think of a time when you weren’t rested.  Probably cranky (if I’m being nice), agitated, resentful and let’s throw in a few whines for good measure.  Oh, and you certainly weren’t looking for any riches or feeling the least bit receptive of them, no matter how loud or long you whined about it.

This is you unempowered.

Which do you prefer?

Here’s where Archangel Chamuel comes to the rescue.  I adore this particular ‘gang’ member (keep in mind that’s what I lovingly call the angelic realm) for her tenacity in keeping those bricks flying at us until we stop the madness of doing  and simply  be thereby honoring ourselves through Acts of Self Love.

How can we love ourselves more?  So glad you asked.

First up, doing at least one  thing a week that is just for us.  We initiate it and revel in it and when we are done, we feel good about ourselves.  This can encompass a buble bath (my favorite), a walk, sitting outside and enjoying nature for as long as we desire.  Consider this your Call To Action for this post.

Do ONE Thing for yourself within the next seven days

You’ll know you have had enough when you sigh and feel complete.  Will you always sigh? Probably not, but you will feel whole again.  You will feel satiated, ready to embrace and attack the world once more.  In others words, ready to give and receive.

Still need a bit more help in getting motivated? I highly recommend a rose quartz crystal.  These lovely crystals are easily found and exude love on all levels, but most importantly on the level of Self Love.  You can have a slab of it (we have a five pounder under our bed to keep love directed at us while we sleep), a smaller one that is tucked in a pants pockets or purse, you can even adorn yourself with jewelry that has rose quartz embedded in it.

Use Chamuel’s Symbol and let the energies of it waft over you sending love, loads of love in your direction.  Yes, this is the symbol at the top of our post and is exclusive to our oracle card deck. They are that special.

Aromatherapy.  We just happen to have Chamuel’s scent in stock. Yes, it’s a shameless plug, but you know me well enough by now that I wouldn’t promote anything unless I adore it.  The man who makes our Angel Essential Sprays meditated with our symbol and Chamuel orchestrated its creation.  Yes, it’s THAT good.

It is a bit of work? Only if you consider taking care of yourself ‘work’. Is it selfish? Absolutely!  When putting your needs first  you tell the rest of the world, universe included, that you are worth of every single thing you desire from your beautiful heart.

So let’s get to it! I look forward to reading how you took better care of yourself in the coming week(S).

Much love,

Chris

“Why?” you ask.

They are accurate. Even when I do ‘Quick and Dirty’ phone readings on radio shows, the cards are extremely accurate and thought provoking according to all the listeners that are calling in.  Many have left the show to quickly pop to our website to purchase their own deck immediately!  At expos, at least 90% of the folks that walk by to test drive them crack up with the accuracy – aka the kick in the pants reminder they get with just one card.

Then we go on to the symbols…

The symbols, which were give to me and a friend one evening continue to unveil their meaning and the depth of support ‘the gang’ has for all of us.  As you may be aware, the deck has 44 cards and within those 44 cards are 14 archangels.  Each of those archangels now has their own symbol that is exclusive to this oracle card deck.

Funny thing about these symbols, I completely know they are not of my doing.  I’m all about round and softness.  These symbols are very angular.  They, I now know, are reminiscent of Rune Symbols.  This is odd, for me, since I have never studied runes and have only recently have come to know about them.  Unlike runes, the Angel Chatter™ Archangel’s symbols are drawn in one motion.  Each symbol starts with a circle/dot and ends with a hash mark.

When they were conceived, I wasn’t sure why on this either, but simply followed the gang’s lead.  There is a method to the madness!  After the symbols settled in, the cards got printed, and started to sell, I finally had a moment to sit with them.  What DO they mean?  WHY are they important?  Oh boy what a charged question!  Let’s use Archangel Raphael’s symbol for our example.

You start deep in your growth; dig deep, dig deeper and shoot up to the light. This is symbolic for shooting up in your growth, your self-esteem, your empowerment.  Ah perhaps there is a set back that slides gently down and could drop you once again, but not needing to go as deep as you originally did.  The energy finally shoots up and out as you become the most beautiful authentic self possible.

Wow…

Te Certification Course is currently a work in progress for those of you wishing to take the cards deeper into your world.  As always, I wish to give you the most bang for your buck and these symbols just haven’t stopped talking since the door has opened!

For now, simply remember, that you are loved always and in all ways.

Initially, I was swamped, we had company and I just couldn’t seem to take even 15 minutes for myself every day.  That in itself was a BIG eye opener for me.  Ugggg… Here I am the Transformational Coach helping people succeed through acts of self love and I was ‘failing’ miserably.

UGGGG  … again.

Once I noticed and owned up to that little ol’ fact. I have made it part of my morning routine:  Get up (always a good thing), Exercise (don’t get too excited here, it’s part of taking time for me campaign and we are talking minutes), let the dogs masquerading as ponies out, feed said ponies, make morning espresso and really enjoy that coffee – the aroma, taste and silky smoothness sliding down my throat is truly morning ambrosia for me.

NOW I’m ready for work and up I go to our office.  Click on the link for the daily meditation and sit back and revel.  Initially I had no idea how difficult it was for me to sit still! I would fidget.  Give up on fidgeting and do work while I was to be meditating.  I felt pathetic.  Really.  BUT I kept persevering and did notice change from day to day.  I sat longer before I got ancy. Now it may have only been an extra 15 seconds, but I’ll movement toward my desired goal, no matter how small, any day.

I simply wanted to share this little piece of insider information about myself and while many think I have it all put together – this is just to say – HA! Balderdash!  But like you, I’m constantly evolving into a better version of myself and that includes taking better care of me.

Hope this inspires you to try meditation or to treat yourself to something just for you each and every day.

Why? Because you are worth it!

For example, my sister and I were at the beach getting our homes ready for the summer season and taking time daily to play.  Early on we discovered an oyster catcher sitting on a nest not far from the beach parking lot.  We checked on the nest daily, witnessed the mates doing a ‘changing of the guard’ dance.  That was our first ‘who knew?’ moment and we grew very attached to this nest of three eggs and the parents.

The weather turned lousy one day and we didn’t do our big outing, but felt compelled to go visit our momma and just say hi.  Off we went to the shore and were horrified as we drove closer and closer to the beach.  The tide was high.  I mean really high.  Water seemed to be every where and in places it wasn’t normally.  We started to get those stomach churnings.

We drove up to the nest to see that it was indeed safe, but was now less than two feet from the water level and high tide was peaking in another hour or so; plenty of time to consume the nest.  It didn’t look good for momma, poppa and the eggs.  UGGGGGGG.  I called in Big Mike (Archangel Michael) for protection and Thuriel (the ‘gang’ member who oversees all animals).  Saw them fly right on in, but my very human side was worried beyond worried.  My sister was worse.  We couldn’t do anything to help except what we had just done; call in the gang to help our  birds.

Back home we went.

The next day dawned, beautiful, crystal clear and everything seemed to glow.  We did our usual routine; errands, work etc.  trying our best to not talk about, think about or even acknowledge the nest.  By mid-afternoon it was beach time.   Off we went and the closer we got to the beach, the more nervous we got.  The butterflies were having a convention in my stomach and my sister was incredibly quiet.  (A rarity on all levels of existence)

Heavy sigh.  We got closer and closer to the nest.  We saw how high the water levels had gotten and it didn’t look good.  Double, triple  UGGGGG.

We approached the location and were shocked…

Oh My God! The birds moved the nest!  Who knew?!  Who knew that birds can and will move a nest when they feel threatened?  They she/he sat (we never could tell the difference between the two) on a nest that was at least three feet closer to the parking lot than the night before.  WOW!

Upon seeing us, she/he got up and moved away from the nest slightly showing two eggs were left.  We felt saddened at the lost of one egg, but the nest had been completely reconstructed, the two remaining eggs safe and the proud parents just had to show it off.

This made an immense impact on us both; firmly cementing in our egoic minds that it is best to leave ourselves open to solutions in any situation we encounter.  We didn’t know birds moved nests, what else don’t we know?  The answer to that is pretty much everything, but now we are more open than ever to be inspired to act and react and trust a whole lot more.

Because we can all say, “Who knew?”

We were honored to see our son marry his one true love this past weekend.  While he may not be my biological son, I adore, love and revere him as if he were.  They have been engaged for years.  As many couples find out later, they grew up within two blocks of each other.  She was on his step-sister’s soccer team during their elementary school years!  They bravely faced and conquered cancer just last year.  They supported each other as a grandparent left this planet.  They faced juggling three sets of parents with such grace it is an inspiration for all.

The wedding day was upon us with an unfavorable weather forecast.  This was a major factor as a good part of the ceremony and reception was taking place at the penthouse in SoHo (South of Houston in New York City jargon).  I KNEW the sun would win.  It did.  It did rain at 11:05PM – less than 30 minutes left of the official reception.  It was glorious, the rays of sun glistening off the architecture of downtown New York, glasses tinkling as the toasts commenced, laughter wafting through the doors as stories of their journey prevailed, and of course the music inspired all to dance – even the 70+ year old grandparents cut a rug and wow the ‘younguns’.

So what’s the purpose of this note, this entry? To inspire! To inspire you to take the steps to take charge of your life!  To realize that acouple, who are in their twenties and living the life they truly desire after facing a bevy of ‘punches’ have moved forward with a renewed vigor and penache to inspire their mom!

How shall you let them inspire you?  What is your next step?  Write your thoughts below – I do read them and comment frequently!

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