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September, 2019 - Micro Harvest Moon on Friday the 13th! September 11 2019

The lunar event this Friday has not occurred in over 19 years! This Harvest MicroFull Moon also has manifested on Friday the 13th. Read on to see how it can benefit you greatly; as long as you say YES to you.

How to better travel and BE protected by who else, the Angels September 04 2019 1 Comment

Traveling? Sensitive or Empathic? Read on for more profound protection.

Intense Energy NOW - SuperMoon and much more August 28 2019 3 Comments

We have a SuperMoon in just two days, August 30, 2019, to BE exact. When you combine this glorious event with other astrological and etheric energies, we are in for Mr. Toad's Wild Ride. The like of which you may not have seen in a while.

The Symptoms You May BE experiencing 

  • Chronic Fatigue
  • Overly Sensitive
  • Intuitive Gifts Skyrocketing
  • Heightened Anxiety
  • Crazy Dreams
  • Manifesting Maven
  • Seeing repetitive numbers

While in many worlds, the above list is considered normal. But each and every one of these traits if normal in your traditional world, are now heightened. Think magnified ten fold. 

That's a lot of fold! Not to be glib, but had to get your attention. 

What to Do?

It is far from the end of the world that we are facing at the moment, but these energies make it feel like it is make no mistake. 

Here is a suggested offering of tools you may use during this tumultuous time, in no particular order:

  • Meditate. Lots of Meditation. Ask for Michael's protection prior. Set one intention of an area you would prefer clarity. Just one. You are already overloaded and no need to overload you more with a bevy of angelic suggestions, as well meaning as they may be. 
  • Forest Bathing. Y'all know this is one of my favorite go tos. Take a walk on the wild side, in nature without your electronic devices. Or at the very least, without them on. This will help cleanse your aura, uplift your spirits and offer some beautiful things to gaze upon. If you are pondering an area of your life, set an intention prior to stepping a foot outside. Let go of what is weighing upon your mind and BE prepared to BE amazed at the signs, messages and inspirations you garner while walking in the woods. 
  • Bubble Baths. Now I know this is not everyone's cup of tea, but in this scenario, give it a whirl. I lace mine with Zadkiel sacred oil, epsom salts and a high grade bubble bath. Soak as long as necessary. Repeat daily. This is a great time to meditate. Allow yourself to imagine life in five years when you follow your dreams. Revel in that energy and use that as a motivator to keep going once you're toweled off and wrinkly from a good soak. 
  • Your intuitive gifts will not only heighten at this moment, but so will your bullshit monitor. Your tolerance for 'lack of integrity' will hit the fan so don't be surprised if some relationships become a bit testy. Pay attention to the insights you garner. Don't ignore or dissuade them from appearing. You are BEing given this gift for a reason. Keep a journal of sorts nearby to jot down the seemingly random insights you are receiving.
  • Dreams! Dream Journal Time! It is very important if you are a dreamer to keep a journal handy. The left page of the journal is for the dream itself as much as you remember. The right page of the journal is for later - how do you feel, interpret the dream, etc. 
  • Manifesting Maven Time! You crazy manifestor you. Seriously this energy is heightened right now; therefore BE very aware of your thoughts, words, action and inactions. ALL play a HUGE role in what is BEing created in your life NOW and going forward. 
  • The Numbers - simply observe how often they happen and ask The Gang - what are you attempting to tell me? BE quiet and take note of any and all messages received. Remember, even if you think you are not intuitive, your gifts are heightened now. 
  • Abstain from alcohol. I love nothing more than an good Italian Red or French Rose, but not this week. This is not the time to dull your senses. As tempting as that glass may be, please refrain. 

What Angels and Tools to Use

A combo of angels immediately stepped forward as I started this section of the blog; Auriel and Haniel as well as Chamuel.

 Archangel Auriel Mandala, Angel Chatter Archangel Auriel is indeed the Lunar Angel and given we are experiencing Super Moon energies, why wouldn't you chat with her? Chat with her to help illuminate the correct path for you at this time. Even if that path means it is time to clear the clutter of your life; stuff, relationships and more. I've got her candle burning again in our main living area; the kitchen/family room.


Archangel Haniel Mandala, Angel Chatter

You Manifesting Maven YOU. BE sure to chat with Haniel more consciously. After all, don't you wish to manifest what you WANT not the undesirable stuff? Haniel will help to point out when you are going astray and to keep you on track regarding your dreams and desired lifestyle. I'm wearing Haniel's bracelet dotted with her sacred oils so I can sniff my way into manifesting my dreams. This sacred oil, for those of you who haven't sniffed it, helps to clear the fog, uplift my spirits and most certainly helps me to remember my WHYS.


Archangel Chamuel Mandala, Angel Chatter

Ahhh, The Angel of Self Love, Chamuel. Chatting with Chamuel will remind you to tend to your needs. Go to sleep earlier. Take that blessed walk in nature and more. Remember, it's A-OK to say NO or YES - as long as you mean it and most importantly - are saying YES to you. Like the other two, I'm using Chamuel's oil in the bubble bath. What better way to soak up all that self love!

Until next week, Keep smiling, BE true to yourself and know we're always here to help, just ask!

When is it 'time' to grow up? August 21 2019

We recently returned from a weekend show in Chicago and something has really settled in for me. A two-day show is easily a five day commitment time-wise; travel, show, travel and then another to recoup. So in this week's scenario a two day show has taken six days of me time. 


This is prime time to look at the bigger picture; growing up. Growing 'up' is a toughie, isn't it? Or is it? That's not to say BEing child-like is childish, for it's not, but it is realizing that what you've been doing isn't necessarily the best course of action for you any more.

Let's Put This Another Way

A mentee client called me (they get to do such things) and needed a major brain dump. She has her own business and her current business model shows, etc. aren't working for her. No this is NOT me, but it may sound similar. She has had major health issues and a, ahem, trusted friend is now competing against her. 

In a quick dialogue we quickly realized she is sitting on a gold mine and it's time for her to stay more local and hit up the various spas, salon, holistic centers near her with her product. 

Repetitive Patterns 0

Empowered 1

On she goes

We looked at what she loves. We looked at what she has been doing for over eight years (we met via the show circuit) and we looked at how far she has grown and what is now important for her and her family. As an observer, it's always easier, isn't it to see the way out?

Yet Another Grown Up Example

First Day of School photos are bombarding us all now. Many friends have their nest now empty and having done this dance ourselves, it is scary, lonely and often leaving one a bit wobbly on their feet. 

Time to step forward. 

One wobbly foot at a time. Whether you are a new empty nester, off to school or just desiring a shift. 

Let's do this together, shall we?

One Foot At a Time

All it takes initially is for you to say YES. YES to you. While one can spit out that word in a nano-second, it takes a sense of I am sincerely ready for new. I desire the change. I am worthy of what I desire and more.

Then do something about it. 

For those going off to college, their process started over a year ago; looking at schools online and in person. Apply to said schools and then the realization hits as the boxes, suitcases and shopping sprees commence. Then the big day arrives. Hopefully laughter amongst tears woven in with hugs as each party embraces the new and knowing the past is just that; the past. It is bittersweet and akin to a band-aid being ripped off. 

However, not all of us are affected by school or college BEginnings. For those not affected by college activities, complacency can be a lovely security blanket. Let's face it, doing the same thing over and over again on one hand is comforting. It is repetitive, you know what to expect and so on. 

However, there comes a time and place you realize you are now dreading that event. It has become too complacent, too matter of fact and at the core a tad boring if one is being honest with themselves. 

It has entered the Meh Arena. 

What is the Meh Arena?

It's just that. Life feels 'meh'. Your routine doesn't bring about a sense of excitement, joy is tagging behind somewhere baaaack there and life feels a bit too rout. Meh is well meh it just sits there. There is no charge to it, no anger, no excitement. It is just meh.

Take some time here. Really think about your life.

What brings you pleasure? What brings a smile to your face. What makes your heart go pitter patter?

Actually write out a list of things that are currently in your life that brings you joy. Write it ALL down, every juicy morsel and then...

Think about your life. What is still left hanging out there in left field that doesn't bring you joy? Don't be shy. Acknowledge those things, events, places, people. 

These are your Meh Arena Participants.

Look at these participants. What can you easily be rid of? This can be, maybe she says with a bit of tease in her voice, a Clutter Clearing Activity. True it can be about the literal things in our life that we have put into our home, closet, cabinetry and more and now scream MEH.

This exercise is also about the activities or lack of activities in your life that hold that same kind of charge, or in this case - no charge. It reminds me of the song from Chicago, Mr. Cellophane. 

Cellophane, Mister Cellophane
Should have been my name, Mister Cellophane
'Cause you can look right through me
Walk right by me and never know I'm there

Think of it this way. Are you excited in the morning, most mornings, to start the day? Do you find yourself laughing throughout your day and happy you are where you find yourself at this moment?

Or, do you find yourself just going through the motions more often than not? 

I do hope it is the former, not the latter. 

Please remember, 2019 is The Breakthrough Year. For all, not just a lucky few, but all

Has your life become too cellophane like? If so, this sadly this puts you steeped in the Meh Arena. 

Time to shake things up and grow up. Now growing up isn't a bad thing or meant that how you live now isn't grown up. Growing Up in my book is living as you desire. No matter the age, or how you desire - well as long it is lived with Love as your motivator. Otherwise you are fooling nobody and a big ol' band aid is being applied. 

It's time to shine; band-aids not allowed unless a real boo-boo is present. 

What to Do to Grow Up?

Like I've already said, say YES to you and reeeaaaalllyyy mean it. REALLY mean it. Aren't you worthy to get out of meh and into WOW?

I think you are. 

Start by ridding yourself of unsavory things. Yes, this could mean literally things. However, it can also mean that you perhaps get rid of another hour of TV and read on a topic you find fascinating. Perhaps you peruse the internet and find other classes to take. Or perhaps go to your local gym and get your chi higher. Perhaps you take a look at life with clarity glasses and ask yourself what needs to say as well as what needs to go.

These are tough decisions to make. Or are they? Are they only tough because it is easier to be complacent than take charge? Easier than saying I am responsible for what is going on and I'm doing something about it. Easier to blame another for your lot in life whether it is lack of love, joy, prosperity, etc. We all have choices. Each one of us and I am no different. I've made choices in the past and while they didn't all work out as I thought they may, they all contribute to where I am now and going. Guess what? Wouldn't trade them in for anything. I AM LOVING the direction of my life and it gets clearer and clearer all the time.

We just need to BE aware of the signs we're giving and move forward. In fact, just this past weekend the number '27' played a part in our gross from the weekend's show (no you don't get to know the first two digits). I checked out Sacred Scribes and here is what she had to say and have been nudged to share with all of you:

Angel Number 27 is a message to believe in yourself, your intuitive messages and your inner promptings. You have been receiving messages about your Divine Life Purpose and your angels encourage you to follow the guidance and directions accordingly. Trust that your angels support you in your spiritual endeavors.

You are BEing asked to step forward on your life path with confidence and grace. Maintain your positive attitude and perspective and trust that you will manifest positive results, rewards and blessings. 

Okay then. May I suggest you re-read that passage a few times since it is now quite public and meant for you as well?

What Angel to Chat with and why

Haniel hands down. Isn't he the Angel of Manifestation? Of course! Therefore, chatting with Haniel will help to illuminate the areas of Meh. He can also assist in the releasing of Meh to Allow WOW to enter. 

Isn't it time life was WOW? I think so and hope you do as well. 

 Archangel Haniel Mandala - Angel Chatter

Haniel's energy is rather on the yummy side. Soft, but like most things don't think soft is weenie territory. He can BE much in your face when you are aware of the Meh and then don't do a thing to alter it. Think it's time you got to know him better... Want even more than this? Of course there is a book for that!

Until next week, BE honest with yourself and let's turn meh into WOW!

How much do you Love...Yourself? August 14 2019

This is a topic I am passionate about and of course it rears its head on a regular basis.

Why? I want to make sure you understand the importance of Loving Yourself more and more and more. 

Why? BEcause if you don't love yourself, nobody else can.

Rephrase that; Nobody can love you more than you LOVE yourself.   

This is a very, very true fact. 

This Journey of Self Love vs. Self Loathing and back to Self Loving

So many, so many unfortunately are told since childhood that if they think of themselves first they are selfish. If they think of themselves first, they are greedy. If they think of themselves first, they are now undesirable. 

Pashaw. Everyone is born desirable, lovable and more. What changed was societal programming of the contrary. 

Now it is time to rebuild. It will take time to love yourself more. The breaking down of your brilliance didn't happen overnight and it won't rebuild itself in a day or two or three.

In fact, it may take the rest of your life. That's OK in my book. Really? OK?

Yep. For every layer that is put back into place and honored, another rears its cute little head requiring more love. 

Remember, all are perfectly imperfect. Including me. Including you. 

Each step that reclaims our juicy essence systematically breaks down the loathing aspect. Loathing is a funny thing; it masquerades nicely. It has been stealthily woven into daily conversations so much so it is a badge of (bad) honor to utilize these phrases: 

  • If I could.... I'd be...
  • If I was.... I'd be....
  • If I hadn't, I'd be....
  • If I had, I'd be....
  • I shoulda done....
  • I shouldn't have done....

See? All very judgmental and that equates with self loathing. Of course it can unfortunately go much deeper. Much deeper. 

Let's just start with one tactic.

Should Vs. Could

Many of you that have been chatting with me for a while, know this is not a new concept. Nope not at all. Years ago, YEARS ago I tell you, the angels shared this with me:

When one should something and doesn't

One then feels guilty

When one should do something, but doesn't wish to, but does

One then gets angry

One always COULD

When one coulds, you free up obligations and now are left in control. You may choose this or that, OR not this or that.

Freedom is the key 

Right off the bat, your newest assignment:

  1. For one week, note often do you think or say the word should. Just note, observe, etc. No judgment, it is what it is. You may be quite surprised at how much pressure you are putting on yourself. Then again, maybe you won't be surprised. 
  2. The week following catch yourself and switch should to could. Note how your body reacts. At first, it may not be overly happy, I'll not lie. It can be intimidating and sometime scary to begin to take control over your actions and thoughts. 
  3. The next week, slow down your speech and consciously begin to incorporate could into your vernacular. This one act alone is more freeing than one may realize. Just one word switcheroo and you are well on your way to acknowledging your needs, desires even more.

THAT is one step closer to loving yourself more. 

One step... but trust me, it's a biggie.


When is the last time you looked in the mirror and liked what you saw? I'm not even using the other "L" word here (LOVE in case you are curious). I'm talking liked

Just yesterday, we were somewhat excited to hunker down inside our home for it was scheduled to pour, storm and pour some more allll day. We got a whole lotta nothing. However, in this hunkering phase, I went grungy; sweatpants and one of my fav sweatshirts. This is one of my not presentable for viewing attires. I had a LIVE with my students last night and let's just say I like to look somewhat presentable for them. 

I fluffed up my hair, put on a tad of make-up (gloss and concealer if you must know) and unclipped my hair. Not bad, not bad I said to myself... Egoic? Perhaps, but remember, if I don't like the way I look, nobody else will either. I've never met a truly ugly person. Truth! Within each and every soul there is beauty. 

Real beauty. The one that only make-up enhances. 

I challenge you now. Go look in the mirror or reverse your smartphone camera to look at yourself. Look at those luscious eyes. How do I know your eyes are luscious? Because they are the window to your soul and your soul is luscious. 

Why is all this Self Love so Important NOW?

If you recall, The Angels, aka The Gang, dubbed 2019 The Breakthrough Year. 

What better breakthrough can one possibly have than to Love themselves more?

Seriously, what better breakthrough?

  • When one LOVES themselves more, one goes after what they desire with greater abandon.
  • When one LOVES themselves more, they allow themselves to receive the accolades, the riches, the love, the health, the joy that they desire - for now they truly embrace the fact that they deserve it.
  • When one LOVES themselves more, they really don't care what others may think of their lifestyle, their homes, their car, etc. BEcause they know how and where they live reflects them.
  • When one LOVES themselves more, life is embraced on all levels and if something doesn't work out right the first time, they take it for what it is; a lesson and try again. 

Isn't that a great start on why you should; yes that word was chosen specifically and is one of the rare shoulds of life -  You Should LOVE YOURSELF more!

Can you imagine what could transform, birth, happen if you loved yourself a bit more? Try it!

What Angel to Chat with Regarding Self Love

Hopefully you know by know I am referring to Chamuel, THE Angel of Self Love. Chamuel oversees the heart chakra and resonates with the color pink. Pink is the color of self love. Pink also happens to be the color of Rose Quartz, the premier stone of self love. Pink also happens to BE one of my favorite colors. 

Chamuel. This is without a doubt the lesson that has given the majority of my students the most run for their money. That's a great thing for they are allowing themselves to dig deep and are honoring the process. For that I am very grateful. 

Take heed Dearest One and allow yourself to LOVE yourself more. Take one step today and another tomorrow. Grab some Rose Quartz; jewelry, raw form, polished - it doesn't matter. Of course you know I offer a bevy of Chamuel products; candles, jewelry, sun drops, guided meditation and sceptres. All were born to help you LOVE yourself more. Want to dig deeper? You know where to find me to schedule some one on one time.

Archangel Chamuel, Angel of Self Love, Mandala


Meanwhile, meditate with Chamuel while gazing upon the channeled mandala above.

Until next week, put your right hand on your left shoulder. Put your left hand on your right shoulder. SQUEEEEEEZZZEEE real hard. Consider yourself hugged. 

Exploring the 3d, 4th and 5th Dimensions and How the Vesica Piscis Plays a Role August 07 2019

ALL are undergoing their own personal ascension process. Yes, ALL. It may be hard to fathom given the state of affairs lately, but bear with me. Some dance in the Third Dimension. Some dance in the Fourth Dimension. Some dance in the Fifth Dimension. Where do you dance?

Black Moon, July 2019 and what this means for you. July 31 2019 2 Comments

The extraordinary Black Moon coincides with Mercury in Retrograde and the annual Lion's Gate. What does this mean for you?

Mary Magdalene Speaks July 24 2019 3 Comments

Mary Magdalene shares her views on Love, Balance and the Divine Feminine and Masculine through Christine Alexandria

Full Buck Moon AND Partial Lunar Eclipse AND Mercury in Retrograde... OH MY! July 17 2019

With the energy of the Full Buck Moon, Partial Lunar Eclipse AND Mercury Retrograding, it is prime time to Let Go.

Mercury's Retrograde Dance for July, 2019 July 10 2019

Fasten those seatbelts Chatterers, this promises to BE biggun' on all fronts; physically, mentally, emotionally and of course spiritually.

How Will Mercury in Retrograde affect you Physically?


One often gets tired during Retrograde. It is part of the detoxing process. Be extra diligent in eating habits (as enticing as they are, stay away from comfort foods). Set strong bedtime hours and adhere to them. Same with wake up hours. The more regimented you are during retrograde, the more you empower yourself. 

Listen to your body's energy level. As much as you desire to go on that 2+ mile walk, can your body handle it at this moment? Perhaps scale it back a bit? Only you can answer that.

How Will Mercury in Retrograde affect you Mentally?

Seemingly Scattered Thinking

When Mercury does the backward dance, our thoughts seem to go all willy nilly and can't get a blessed thing 'done'.

Or do we?

Instead of pushing forward, spend time in reflection. In other words, meditate. It is the calming of the mind that soothes the soul. As you dwell upon the scattered thoughts, your brain fires up and is raring to go, but revs in place. Not very gratifying or calming in my book. 

All those thoughts that charge at you - are they begging for attention or releasing? it's rather that simple. Why not get into the habit of asking:

Do you wish to BE released?
Do you wish expansion and are you helpful in my mission?


When they respond that it is time for releasing, place your hands over your heart and send love to them. Before you know it, these thoughts cease to have power over you. 

How Will Mercury in Retrograde affect you Emotionally?

Oh Woe is ME!

Serious Pity Parties are common place during retrograde. While it never hurts to go down, for it does help to dig up what isn't serving, it is not helpful to wallow and BEcome the Queen of the Pity Parties. Just isn't pretty from any angle. 

Dig Deep Chatterer!

Bring the trowel, pick and shovel for releasing is the game this go round. Look at 'it' with fresh eyes and heart. Why is it surfacing now? What has it taught you? How are you shifting to allow this mindset to go bye-bye into the ethers?

This is a perfect time to have a session with a trusted coach, massage therapist, etc. They need to BE trusted as they must BE strong enough themselves to hold space for you while you release emotionally. 

How Will Mercury in Retrograde affect you Spiritually?

Put it this way, if Mercury has affected you physically, mentally and/or emotionally, it is affecting your spiritually?

Feelings of giving up, throwing in the towel, leaving, etc. are unfortunately common during Mercury's Retrograde Dance. 

You may second guess all things spiritual. WHY is this happening to me, locally, nationally, internationally?

WHY? Who could allow such nonsense to happen? WHY? Sound vaguely familiar?

I go back to meditating as a tool to not only get you through, but to center you. 

If you've not meditated previously or don't feel comfortable, give my guided meditations a whirl.

 What Angel to Chat with During Mercury in Retrograde?

Raphael, the Angel of Healing!

Why Raphael? First off he governs the planet Mercury. True Story. 

Secondly, does one not go through copious amounts of healing opportunities during Retrograde? Of course one does. Then why not go to the angel who is extremely well versed in healing on all levels?

Archangel Raphael's Mandala

Focus on Raphael's Channeled Mandala above. His sigil is woven into the design as as all of the mandalas. Therefore, there is great power within. If you are having a more than usual hiccups this retrograde, I strongly suggest (for they ARE powerful and therefore empowering for you), his candle, medallion and bracelet. Of course I'm always here to help you through via private sessions - we have one Private Weekend still open for 2019... 

Why the Urgency Now?

Many reasons, but the biggest that comes to mind is that when Mercury does go direct, it is on the heels of the second New Moon in July (July 31 if you must know). This is prime time for New Beginnings. Take the suggestions noted above. Build on those suggestions and above all else, remember to BE. 


The Message ... July 03 2019

Have you ever wondered what messages there are for you in nature? You are presented with them all the time, it's just a matter of looking, receiving and sitting with the message that is there - just for you.

This Month's Nature Message

We had a private client earlier this month and as par for the course we took a walk, a very magical walk in the woods. 

As typical that weekend, like all other client weekends, I held space for our client while they were with us; the entire weekend; sessions, meals, sacred ceremonies and walks. Unfortunately so much so I personally often miss some signs as I am there for them.

Not this time! This message was meant for both of us and as you will read, it is quite profound. Hope you take the message deep within you as well.

On that day, we walked the main trail, headed into the woods and eventually landed by the river's edge where we reveled in the beauty there for close to one hour. We saw great blue heron, cormorants, and loons all while touched by gentle breezes and trees whispering. Satiated with peace, joy and centeredness, we started to venture home.

We rambled and chatted away as we trekked the .5 mile to the parking lot area. Juuust as we were approaching the exit, a flickering caught our attention.

Something was flickering over the rock to our right. As we approached, this is what we saw:


A fawn!

This isn't just any fawn, but a newborn! If you look closely, you will see the tail is still damp. Momma wasn't to BE seen, but knew she was close by cleaning herself and foraging for food. 

We stood in awe for over ten minutes and pretended she wasn't there as other humans walked right on by - yes they did not see this miracle.

Our gain, their misfortune.

The Message Fawn Brings

As we then ventured the rest of the way home, our mouths wouldn't stop wagging! (pun intended). The client was full of questions - what did it mean, will she be A-OK and so on. 

Rest assured I went back the next day after dropping our client at the airport. The fawn was no longer there; and there was no sign of any struggle. All was right with the world. 

Back to the message she brings. Our client that weekend is ready. She is ready to embark on a lifelong dream of running her own business based on a family recipe. She knows, as do many of you, that this is THE Breakthrough Year. Either you say YES unequivocally or stop talking about 'it'.

As I pondered the gift fawn gave us both, this is what came to mind:

  • She was safe. We are safe from all predators, copycats and those wishing us harm.
  • She was a newborn. We are newborns in the sense we are birthing a new way of BEginning that not only affects us as individuals, but those around us through the ripple affect and yes directly and yet she
  • Trusts. Look at her eyes. There is not a glimmer of concern within her. Curiosity absolutely, but no fear. She was snuggled amongst the rocks and trusted that momma was coming back and trust she was returning with food. We can trust. It is obviously up to us to do so and know all of our needs are BEing met. However as humans, we desire it yesterday. Don't pretend you don't, yesterday is perfect for having dreams manifest. Trust is an issue for most humans as various levels. If we didn't we would BE living life as desired; however many trust that it will 'never' happen. 
  • Gentleness. A dawn's energy is one of Love; also a totem representation of Archangel Chamuel, Angel of Self Love. What better way to end this walk than with a reminder to Love one's self more?!

Not too shabby from a newborn fawn who uttered not a sound. 

What Angel to Chat With and Why

Without a doubt, Archangel Thuriel comes to mind, The Angel of Animals. 

Thuriel oversees the entire animal kingdom, the real, the mythical, the reptilian, the aviary, the mammals and so on. There are many angels under Thuriel that specialize, but for now, Thuriel it is. 

Thuriel helps one to connect with nature's critters and helps us mere mortals see these miracles and the message they bring with them. It is in the moments of BEing we give witness to these miracles of nature. We can stand in awe of their beauty as well as the message that comes with them. If you have been with me for a bit, you see the blessings I'm shown on a regular basis; baby fox (there's that theme again), snakes, birds etc. when I share via Instagram.

By chatting with Thuriel more often, you will gleen messages not only from nature, but from any beloved furbabies in your life whether they be yours, family or friends.  His energy is sublimely gentle and always there. Just ask and as with any other angel, the answer is provided. You just need to BE in order to hear.

Archangel Thuriel Mandala - Angel Chatter

Good Girl Syndrome June 26 2019

Being A Good Girl isn't something that one ought to brag about. Why? For if one is a true Good Girl, they have left themselves behind and forgotten their juiciness and what matters to them. 

Are you a Good Girl? Read on to find out more...

No One Can Take Away Your Destiny June 19 2019

Read the title again.

No One Can Take Away Your Destiny

Period. The End.

Take me for example. While in high school our guidance counselor said I would make a great court reporter. Really? Had never heard of that, but said OK because she was an authority figure! To this day, I believe there was some sort of kick back for THREE of us from the same high school went there.

To my knowledge, not one of us ultimately stuck with it.

Can you see me as a court reporter? Seriously? Obviously I didn't either. 

I jumped into corporate (obviously still in denial of who I am) and became the best administrative assistant, ever - in my eyes certainly. ;) 

I got married - still married to the same guy... going on 34 years.

I left corporate when we had our first child. Became an amazing domestic goddess and raised two rather off the charts magnificent humans.

Obviously still had no clue what my gifts were, let alone how to use them or to BE of service. Certainly I would never EVER change my Momma Bear Title for anything. However, as the younguns grew, it became obvious to everyone, but me, that this role was diminishing and I best find something else to do. 

Enter The Gang, aka the angelic realm. 

Enter The Dunno Years

As The Gang slowly began to wake me up, wing slap me with confirmations with all the 'silly' intuitive games I'd play; who's calling (keep in mind this was long before caller ID and the cell phone invasion), where it 'hurt' (I'd play this with myself while in yoga class. Another's energy would catch my eye and I'd do a quick body scan only to hear them moments later share where and how their body hurt - 99% of the time I got it right). Those were private amusements and certainly encouraging. 

I ventured forth. Took many classes; Reiki, Integrated Energy Therapy, Magnified Healing, Hypnosis, Chakra (first had to learn what a chakra was - true story), Crystals and well you get the idea.

Still had NO idea where it was going and my husband while patient was becoming slightly demanding. Was I going to teach, see clients, etc? 


Insert heavy sighs and multiple eye rolls on his end, but the support kept rolling in. All in the name of Love. 

Inch by Inch, Yard by Yard

Slowly, ever so slowly I emerged. Slowly I BEcame a tad confident. Slowly I BEcame empowered.

Enter Stage Left the Naysayers and doomsday throwers and all around not nice folks.

All in the name of 'love' I would be challenged:

  • How do you know you can do this?
  • Never heard of Reiki
  • Never heard of that angel
  • Smirks, Coughs, endless eye rolls
  • and well you get the idea

THEN came the big guns. Curses and more thrown at me. Yes, people still do curse another and not just in the profanity sort of way. Curses in the sort of way to wish another harm, confusion, etc with failure as the ultimate conclusion. 

It's a real thing. 

Luckily for me I have, while small, a powerful network of goddess to coddle, love on, support and yes wield their own power to pull me through. For I was never and will never back down. 

Destiny awaits us all. 

Inch by inch, yard by yard, I BEcame more confident. I BEcame more powerful. I BEcame more committed of my destiny and while the hows shift on a regular basis, the whys rarely do. 

I'm here to inspire and empower.

How To Stand Taller

Everything I post on social media, OK, almost everything is done with intention. To support you, inspire you and help you to remember your whys, your essence, your destiny. 

There are unfortunately many who work for their paycheck and live for the weekends, vacations and retirement. Don't be one of them. That's surviving, not thriving. It is time to THRIVE. 

The time of surviving is over. It is time that each one of us is excited to embrace the day for we are excited to share our gifts. 

Time to Chat with These AngelS

Yes multiple angels this week.

First up Uriel, Angel of Safety. Do not confuse Uriel and Safety with Michael and Protection. Two very different energies. Uriel reminds you that YOU are safe to BE you. If ALL felt this energy and owned their essence, there would be no war. Repeat, there would be no war. For ALL would know their gifts and would honor others accordingly. True Story.

Use the Askfirmation Why is it safe for me to BE me? This is the quintessential game changer of all game changers

Archangel Uriel Mandala - Angel Chatter


Focus on Uriel's Mandala to the right during any meditations when you desire to get to the core. The core of you. Feel your root chakra expand in its energy and filtering through your BEing reminding you of your essence and why you are needed... NOW.



Archangel Metatron - Angel of Destiny. If you have been with me for a while, Metatron's title does shift, Motivator, Soul's Purpose and more. For the purpose of this blog, he came out with a new one, Angel of Destiny. 

Archangel Metatron Mandala - Angel Chatter

Metatron oversees the Soul Star Chakra - approximately 6" above you head. He lovingly reminds you of your destiny - your whys. If you don't listen or act, you will either:

  • BE severely wing slapped - he has a bit of humor ;)
  • BEcome miserable with life and always overwhelmed.

The latter is due to you not following and pursuing your dreams aka your destiny. I suggest you listen openly and act accordingly. Trust me, you will BE much happier.


Archangel Chamuel - Angel of Self Love

Chamuel oversees, the Heart Chakra, along with Raphael - the Angel of Healing. However, for this week's blog, Self Love is paramount.

Archangel Chamuel Mandala - Angel Chatter

Why paramount? If you are brilliant at ignoring you, your gifts, your interests etc. how can you ever pursue your Destiny? Court Reporting anyone? 

It is when your soul BEgins to stir that you BEgin to remember. It is when you remember those dreams from childhood of how life will BE lived; on your terms. It is the time when you BEgin to put yourself first; albeit somewhat cautiously perhaps initially, but first it is. 


BEgin to combine these three powerhouses in your weekly, if not daily chatting aka meditation. Your life will BEgin to shift and remember, NOBODY can take away your destiny, except you by ignoring it. 

Want more? Perhaps it is indeed time to work together. I have a variety of options; private weekends (one left for 2019), one off reading, 3 month mentorship and just released the YES to Me Program which includes an extended private weekend!

Why? It's time for YOU.





What is Love? June 12 2019

Love is such a funny word. 

It is a word that is tossed about freely with phrases such as:

OMG, I LOVE this dip!

I love that car.

I love how that dress looks on you - MUST get

and so on.

However, when it comes to personal relationships, we start throwing in the word unconditional when associated with Love. Or use phrases such as luv ya! Of course this takes away the intensity of the true emotion. It diminishes the purity of this most powerful emotion. Much like it takes it away when you say I love you honey. While rather sweet, it doesn't hit home the same way if you used their birth name. 

So What to do what to do... Remember, Love IS LOVE... there are NO conditions. Period. The End. However, most simply don't seem to get that concept, so to offer hopefully more insight using the above examples:

Do you tell the dip you would love it more if it had more paprika in it?

Do you tell the car you would love it more if it were a different color?

Do you tell your friend that you would love that dress more if it were ...

Thought so.

Why are conditions placed on Love?

If you think of the above examples, there is no danger of it hurting you. When does dip go out of its way to hurt or belittle you? It is an inanimate object! Of course it has no agenda, recourse or ulterior motive. It is what it is. Therefore, in my humble opinion, folks go all willy nilly and throw Love at dip, houses, cars, clothing and more and leave behind humankind.

Why is that?

Humans have ego. Humans have agenda. Humans have history, personal history that can dictate how one moves about their life. Do you go timidly, testing the waters? Or do you blaze ahead and spread Love droplets everywhere you go?

I remember years ago, a young girl was so filled with Love, she hugged all; family, strangers and friends. However, her friends, at a very young age thought she was weird. Who hugs so much and tells them they're happy to see them... all the time? They would push her away and make weird faces behind her back. From that moment, she began to pull back. She kept more to herself, she even labeled herself as weird the older she got. Luckily, she has great parents who continued to encourage her 'weirdness' and today she is a very HAPPY adult. 

But why does this even have to happen in the first place?

What makes people so afraid of LOVE? What makes people put conditions on Love? A babe comes in all gooshy and loving and is ready to give and give and give, so what happens along the way?

Things to ponder about society and within.

Where Does Love Start?

It has to; it must start within. It starts by honoring who you are. Remembering you are perfectly imperfect, just as it everyone else who is walking the planet at this time. 

It starts by honoring your energy levels. It is about knowing your imperfections. Imperfections are not an excuse. They are a fact, but ones that can help propel you to where you desire. I just watched a video of America's Got Talent. This young man was diagnosed with leukemia at a very young age. He was then bullied for being different and horrible rumors spread that his cancer was contagious (really?). He was given a sign, a sign he could have easily ignored, for free violin lessons. He jumped on it and is now on his way to the final rounds of AGT.

He could have easily wallowed and ultimately let cancer win. He did not use his diagnosis as an excuse. He used it as a tool to never give up. He loved himself more to take the next step and the next and the next. 

What are your truths that you may use as an excuse? If you are using any of these kinds of excuses as a way to keep you playing small, it is allowing another to dictate your ability to honor you and through it LOVE you more. Please never allow that to happen again. Will you go forth immediately? Most likely not, but you can continue to blossom and remember to BE. BE You.

True, many reading this have been hurt via insults from someone trusted, ignored by someone trusted, left behind by, you got it, someone trusted. The hurt is real. However, by allowing the hurt to dictate how you move forward is beneath you. You can rise above this and reclaim your beautiful essence. 

It starts by better understanding your WHYS... why you desire this or that, why you want to do 'it', why oh why oh why.

What Love Angel to Chat With and Why

Hopefully it will come as no surprise that this week's angel focus is Chamuel, Angel of Self Love. 

It all, as mentioned above, starts withinNobody is responsible for loving another so they feel complete. Nobody. One only allows the love in for what they feel worth to receive. 

It starts with what is put in our sacred vessel, our body. Is your food fueling or dulling you? Really that simple of a question. You have control of the hand to mouth scenario. 

It starts with what you are surround by; uplifting folks or folks that feed the degrading machine? 

It starts with your sacred space; your home. How does it reflect you? Cluttered or clutter-free? Decorated with intention or all thrown together?

All this contributes and tells the world how much you love yourself and are therefore prepared to love another and assist them on their path. Assist via friendship, mentorship and more.

Chat the Chamuel daily and ask how you may Love yourself more today. Perhaps a walk in the woods, perhaps time out to read, perhaps tea out with a friend, perhaps a nap is in order, perhaps... 

Sit with Chamuel's sigil infused mandala below and I'll be surprised if you don't get insights. Be prepared and don't argue! Besides, you can't win an argument with an angel anyway - they do have your best interests at hand!

Archangel Chamuel Mandala - Angel of Self Love - Angel Chatter

Time to Play BIG or ... play small June 05 2019

What kind of life do you desire? One full of excitement, contentment, joy, prosperity and expansion? Let's not forget one filled with great health, love and why not add a lovely roof over our head?

Me too.

I've been watching, listening and watching some more.

So many of you are are grappling with settling aka surviving or stepping out bigger, prouder than ever before. 

Just this week a student responded to a social media post that she would love to live in another specific locale - this locale is literally more than half way across the country from where she currently lives. Unfortunately she's been struggling with health and finances in recent times, so I quickly suggested that she look in this new locale for her new life especially since she stated so strongly how much she loves it there and feels better physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Her response?

I can't. Family is here and I simply can't leave them.

I understand that; desiring to BE close to family and more.

HOWEVER, and this is a BIG however, what order has she been placing? Don't like where I am, AND I long to BE in that state (literally) and so on, BUT can't leave. Can you see how the Universe just MAY be a tad confused as to what she really desires? The Universe has been busy helping to close up shop in the current locale for years and yet she desires to stay.

Obviously the coach/mentor/teacher in me jumped right in and pointed this out. 

Her response?

OHHHH I see what you mean!

What Order Have YOU Been Placing?

We've all had a job, or two, or more, that we really couldn't stand. The ethics of the company (trust me been there, done that), their benefits, location, type of company and more. We'll even say things like,  I can't wait to leave this place. Then lo and behold one gets fired, or puts in a corner more or less forcing them to leave with no safety net, or the more 'gentler' version - laid off. 

If this has happened to you, I'm sorry, for it is beyond frustrating, but think back to your words and thoughts prior. 

Can you now see how powerful you really are? 

The Universe is constantly supporting us! We have famous sayings such as: Energy goes where attention flows.... The Universe is simply responding to your thoughts, actions and words all along!


You Manifesting Magnet You. 

Law of Attraction Refresher

Remember the Universe does not interpret. Nope, not on iota. If you are grumbly, you get more to grumble about. If you are happy, you get more to BE happy about. If you are worried, you got it, you get more worrisome things on your plate. If you are feeling low, not worthy, etc., hopefully you get the idea by now.

It's why I developed the Askfirmations. This isn't a plug, but an earnest way to remind you that you have tools, viable tools, at your very finger tips. Instead of stating, thinking about whiny, fear mongering questions, try switching it around. You get high powered, positive, present-tense energy questions. Questions that work for you, just as those not so nice questions. 

The Universe responds, no matter what kind of question you ask. Like attracts like, no matter the intent behind it. If you are whiny and frustrated - why can't I get a better paying job? Guess what? The Universe does not understand innuendos; it does not interpret. You will get another lower paying job that sooo does not excite you. 

It's Time to Change Your Story

We've alllll woven stories that offers up our perception of what really happened. Most often these stories have been glorified in some small or large way. You know the story that initially makes you feel better for it justifies your very thoughts, actions and/or inactions.

Sit with one story. Any one of the stories that rumbles around in your gray cell area (aka your brain). Pull it out and play with the first one that shows itself. 

Listen to the story as it plays out. REALLY LISTEN. This is sooo not the time to judge the story, for it's already been playing. Listen openly with ears and heart. 

How does that story make you feel?

Do you feel expanded or constricted? That's really the only thing you need to ask at this moment. 

Does it make me feel Expanded or Constricted. 

If you feel any constriction, change the story. By doing so, you begin to change your reality.

It really is that difficult AND that simple. Changing your story is incredibly liberating, it may take time, but slow and steady wins the race. You are literally rewiring your thinking. This will not happen overnight, but happen it will, promise.

Are You Surviving or Thriving?

Think about it this way - this plays into the story lines within your life. If you feel as though you are treading water, you are! If you feel as though you are floating on air, well you are!

The time for surviving is done. I'm done with surviving mentality, aren't you? Aren't you ready to THRIVE?

Every single person on this planet deserves to thrive. Every. single. person. Yes even those you despise. Those are the ones who actually need it the most for they are the ones that have woven nasty stories within their gray cells and now cannot get out of their own way, even if they try. 

You go first. You BE the leader that you are. Leader? Absolutely. You lead more than you realize simply by BEing you. You lead via example. Sometimes, sometimes mind you, it may feel like nobody is listening, watching or even know you exist.

Trust me, they are and do.

However, do not ever live a life to please or inspire another. Your story is just that - YOUR story; make it one that has you THRIVING. Deliriously THRIVING. 

Who cares if you pack up and move to that new locale? IF you are happier, all in your circles will be for you as well. There is so much to explore, experience and share no matter where you are, why not do it in a place you LOVE BEing in and because you love it, it truly supports all you do for now you are remembering the Essence of BEing...

What Angel to Chat with and Why

Initially Metatron poked his head in, but Haniel pushed him aside (yes it had me laughing) and said...

"ummm excuse me, I handle Living the Life You Desire Department."

You gotta laugh at these 'guys'.

So Haniel it is. 

Who better to help you create your Heaven on Earth Reality, than the Angel of Manifestation? Hmmm... who better? Can't recommend 'this guy' enough to help you manifest your desires into your reality. 

Start Chatting!


Archangel Haniel Mandala 

Sometimes one can get side-tracked May 30 2019

Who hasn't done the proverbial 'squirrel moment' in their life? You know the moment when everything falls to the side and all you can see is the beacon, beckoning, calling, enticing. 

I know I have and it bit me again just this week. 

It happens often for all when you feel the engine revving, but you aren't going any where. It happens often when you know there's more but can't seem to get outta the way. 

The Story

I'll keep names out of this. I was approached by a coaching company to help me thus allowing me to help more. Of course I AM interested! I know without a doubt I'm here to help millions - no small order, eh? So anything that I could finesse, hone in on, etc I'm all ears. 

The basic course resonated with me. So stay tuned for subtle and hopefully empowering shifts coming your way. 

I was then 'gifted' another coaching call. Okaaayyy. I kenw it would be an upsell, but didn't expect it from the get go. Immediately I'm told how great this company is and all of a sudden I'm gifted with a scholarship, the initial money investment would roll into this course, etc etc blah blah blah. 

The KEY turning off point was when I was blatantly lied to. My investment would be greatly reduced yada yada yada... HOWEVER with the switcheroo being while my initial money investment was knocked off this total, it was still paid! Me thinks I smell a rat. 2 + 2 is not equalling four here... 

To rephrase,

Let's just say $10 was initial amount. The new total was $60; factor in the scholarship and reduction it came down to $30. However, when you factor in the initial $10, it was really $40. Something that kept getting glossed over during the 90 minute call. 

Bottom Line

Once I sense this one lie and honestly it took my husband to point it out, all bets were off. If this is happening now prior to sign on, what would come down the road?

Talk about a sour taste in my mouth!

How to switch this around

Bottom line - listen to your heart. When one feels those heart tugs as the next best thing since peanut butter, it is a great time to pull back and heart on it. 

Take that moment and BE. Ask The Gang for a sign. BE clear on what kind of sign you desire and why. BE open to receiving and accept the message. Don't let the ol' ego tell you that it really wasn't a sign and just your imagination so you keep following.

Once I declined, a vise that I was not aware of, released. Of course it then prompted this blog post as a way to help encourage you and remind you to listen.

My promise to you

To only offer you more, an upsell, if I believe it to BE of value to you. I'm here to decrease my karma and increase my dharma - so lying or pushing doesn't get me any where. Agreed? 

I promise to always give you my very best whether it is in our very amazing Facebook Group, other social media links, private weekends, mentor packages, products, and well you get the idea. I really believe your success is my success. While many say this, I mean it from my heart. My students are really grasping this as I cheer them on and more. In fact, one even said 'you really mean you ARE happy when we succeed!'... why YES I AM! Why? One it makes me giddily happy to see another embrace their essence whether it is car upholstery, coaching, jewelry, cooking, art, angel readings, trash pick up... everyone has a gift that is meant to share. 

I really don't care who you were in a past life - that an $1 gets me a cheap cup of coffee. I don't care what you do in this life as long as YOU are thrilled doing it. I don't care what kind of house you live in, as long as YOU are happy living there and it reflects you. I really don't care how much money you make or don't make; and let's repeat this once more - as long as YOU are happy. 

Seriously - isn't it time more ARE happy to BE? To BE a true reflection of themselves, doing what they love and how they wish to BE doing it? 

I think so. 

What Angel to Chat with

Metatron. Why him of all angels? Metatron is instrumental in so much of our lives for he oversees the Soul Star Chakra. The place about six inches over your head. He helps you to stay the course; your course and ultimately BE. 

Combine his energy with his twin, Sandalphon (Earth Star Chakra and six inches below your feet) and they merge where else but your heart. 

Throughout this very little latest adventure of mine, they chatted and chatted and chatted with me. Helping to ground while uplifting. Helping to stay centered within the heart space. Why is this combination important? Listening to the whisperings of your heart only leads to the truth and helps you stay on your soul's path. You learn along the way. True at times one needs another to help them for humans are not solitary animals by nature, one needs the assistance of another to remind them of their greatness, their gifts and more. One needs periodic cheerleaders and hand holders. 

Metatron and Sandalphon combined will help with all of this and more. Need a real flesh and blood person? I'm here to help you.



Isn't It Time? May 22 2019 2 Comments

Isn't it time to stop lying? Isn't it time to Speak Your Truth? Even if speaking your truth means some relationships go adrift. Isn't it time you began living a life you are excited about? Read on to take the first step.

How much do you... May 15 2019

The world at large likes to think themselves advanced, open-minded and honoring others. 


Be honest, when is the last time you judged another for the way they looked, their beliefs or the kind of house they live in or something equally benign?

I am now not judging you, just pointing out that many do this; at alllll sorts of levels. Me included. 

Isn't it time all recognized the magic and endless possibilities that are out there? I think so. One of my favorite personal sayings is I know I know nothing. Now that might seem belittling, but it is not. It simply tells the universe that I AM open to more.

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Thoughts and Musings

I realized a while ago when my husband became an idiot it was simply because I was tired. Did he do anything different from any other day? Nope. But like I said I was tired and the best thing for me at that moment was to go back to bed and rejuvenate; the last thing I needed to do was judge another; especially the man who has been by my side though thick and thin.

Apparently I'm not alone in experiencing this Idiot Syndrome; others have come forth and claim the same phenomena happening within them. Is it really a phenomena? Not really; however, doesn't it appear to be easier to blame another for their success, shortcomings, etc when we are feeling down? It may at the onset, but what kind of energy does one buy into by claiming this? Remember, energy attracts like energy. IF you are casting out those idiot vibes what kind of vibes are coming right back at you? I can pretty much guarantee it's not savory or sweet.

In a nutshell we're too tired and depleted and ignore our needs so it 'feels' better to put down another. 

Let me rephrase that:

When we are tired, depleted, etc.

It's always easier to be jealous



Of another and gleefully point out their shortcomings


Downgrade their success by saying such things as

They slept their way to the top

Look at them; always showcasing their gifts

and more

Who hasn't been envious of another's success? Who hasn't 'hated' (and I hope, sincerely hope it's not to the true level of hate) another because they dared to shine their light? Or was quick to judge another because they were not complying to our standards?

There is an old proverb:

"Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones"  

This simply means that one should not criticize others, because everybody has faults of one kind or another. Remember, ALL humans are perfectly imperfect.

Including you.

Including me.

So instead of finding fault of another whether it is a true fault or they simply BElieve in something you don't, why not back off and listen? You just may learn a thing or too. This is not to say you must now own or embrrace their beliefs, but it certainly widens your horizon! Listen openly. Listen with not just your mind, but your heart. For example, y'all know I am trained in a variety of healing modalities. However, all these modalities combined add to the assistance of Western medicine. I'm experiencing this at this very moment. I have a frozen - albeit thawing - shoulder. The owner of the business concentrates on nutrition, supplements, physical therapy and chiropractic. He is fully aware of what I do for a living and flat out told me 'You take care of the spiritual, leave the physical to me.' I adore this man and the practice. 

What's Next? Time to Fly!

Isn't it time you unfurled Your Freak Flag and let it wave proudly? If you persist in hiding, whining and ultimately judging, your tribe members will pass you by because your true essence hasn't come out to play. 

Will you flag fly freely daily? Obviously that's the goal, but like all things in life, there are certainly days when one feels more confident than others. On those off days, it's best to observe, cocoon and learn. It's best to hibernate vs. joining some Whiny/Judgment Parade. 

It's yet another act in the Art of Allowing. The Art of Honoring; honoring your energy levels and know what you are capable of accomplishing and BEing on any given moment and day. Remembering it is more than A-OK to take things a bit slower. It is more than A-OK to BE. It is more than A-OK to soar. 

Please join me in committing to YOURSELF. Remembering your Whys. Honoring YOU.

What Angel will assist in this?

Archangel Chamuel, The Angel of Self Love, is my go to in this scenario for many reasons. 

  • She will remind you of your Whys.
  • She will remind you in the most loving manner to BE quiet and not judge
  • She will remind you that it is time to take a break and slow down
  • She will remind you on those high powered days to soar ever higher
  • She will remind you on those low energy days to withdraw, close your mouth and tend to YOU
  • She will remind you to listen openly

Why do all or any of these acts? Quite simply when one tends to themselves first, they are constantly replenishing their sacred vessel and naturally BEcome not just tolerate of another's beliefs, but depending on the circumstances accepting. 

I hope you read this post openly and perhaps re-read it and allow the various ideas and thoughts to seep deep within. Remember, you are loved for you. Not what you think you need to do, act, wear, etc in order to BE loved. 


Archangel Chamuel's Mandala

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Archangel Chamuel, Angel of Self Love

Are YOU Revolving or Evolving? May 08 2019

Revolve. Evolve. Funny two words that sound very similar, and yet so very different.

One keeps you going; like a gerbil wheel. You're making great time, but aren't moving forward one iota.  In this scenario you Survive. You are treading water.

The other has you transforming and continually looking for more. More juice, more laughter, more life and of course more love. In this scenario you Thrive. You blossom and grow.

Which scenario do you live? Which scenario would you prefer?

It comes back to the story you tell yourself

We ALL have stories we've bought into at some point:

  • 'Everyone' in my family has diabetes, so I know I'm going to get it
  • Girls can't play sports ... with guys
  • It's so hard to start your own business and succeed. Do you know how many fail every year? I'll play it safe and work for Da Man.
  • I'm doing good work; I can't possible charge a lot; that's being greedy

Ummm... any of this sound familiar?

If they do, it's time to change youstory. Diabetes? True you may be pre-disposed for this disease, but that does not mean you 'get it'... You have been warned that it is a possibility. You can alter your diet and exercise regime to hopefully keep it at bay. 

The girl thing? Society is already seeing shifts that has girls playing sports.

If nobody ever started a business, the heart and light would go out in so many scenarios. Drudgery would become the norm. Creativity would flat out die. Businesses start because someone was passionate about a cause, their mission, and idea somewhere along the way. I'm proof of this.

Can't charge a lot? Pashaw. I admit I can be somewhat lazy. While I work hard and focused I rather hope it's not at the workaholic phase; I enjoy taking time out to BE. I'd rather have a strong core of amazing clients, students and customers who want to move forward and are looking for a push, a prod or a hug to get them there. I get my ideal tribe because that is how I have programmed my business. I actually had a student a while ago tell me I was getting greedy to my face! Oh my. I turned on a dime with her and shared that I have worked very hard to get where I am and the course was not something that was thrown together overnight. I respect myself and the time put into it all and charge accordingly (and for the record, I was told to charge A LOT more from other experts). Plus I am still personally involved throughout the entire eight month plus long course. PLUS isn't the universe vast? Isn't the universe unlimited? Therefore the time for surviving has long past. 

It is time to THRIVE... each and every one of us.

You included. 

 No matter your passion, if you are called to spread your beautiful wings, DO IT!

GRATITUDE shifts more than you may know

When one is in the whining stage of an event. How beneficial is it to whine to themselves and any who will listen? This is not to say don't share a mishap in your life. However there is no need to keep repeating the story over and over and over again. For every time you share the story, it's 'truth' seeps in deeper and before you know it, you are the proud owner of a new story that is not serving you. 

My dad says, 'That action is beneath you." Smart man he is. 

Switch it to the essence of Gratitude. Sure you may be grateful for much in your life; a roof over your head, health, friends that check in on you and lights that go on off at the flick of a switch. 

I am too. 

When is the last time you gave thanks at a meal? I mean really gave thanks not just reciting or mumbling the rote pre-meal prayer that rolls off your tongue without a thought. 

When is the last time you were grateful for the utensils that put that food in your mouth?

When is the last time you really enjoyed the meal vs. eating while you're watching your latest binge show? 

It's that kind of gratitude I'm talking about Chatterers. 

The kind of Gratitude that melts your heart, brings a smile to your face and who knows maybe a Happy Tear or two... The kind of Gratitude that fills your soul from the tips of your toes and through the crown of your head. 

Yes, yet another Lesson in BEing. 

Revolve or Evolve

Here we go again. Are you tired of hearing the same story from others and of course the ones you have running in your head or coming out of your mouth?

You always have the choice to change your story. You can change your story from one of going in circles to moving forward.

The choice is one only you can make to change. 

How to start to change it?

Pay attention! Yes, BE. What do you prattle on about in your head? What is the story of why this or that hasn't happened? Initially just simply take note.  

After you have noted a story that is playing on the repeat mode. Write it down. Look at those words; can you better understand why it is not working in your favor?

How can you change those words to better reflect where you wish go and how to BE? You have the power to change those words to better reflect the divine essence of you. 

It's time to change the story from:

  • Revolving to EVOLVING
  • Surviving to THRIVING
  • Failing to SUCCEEDING
  • Emptiness to WHOLENESS

As I have often said, it is up to YOU to decide and commit to those blessed changes you desire to experience. Others can show you various ways, but YOU have to decide and take the first step.

What Angel do I Chat With to Evolve?

There are so many angels that one can chat with to better commit to themselves, but when I asked them whom, Shamael, Angel of Harmony stepped forward. 

Why Shamael? For it did surprise me as well; this is what was shared:

By letting go of pre-conceived notions of how things are suppose to be, you slip into the energy of harmony. 

When one is more harmonious with their essence, they are more inclined to go with the flow and not get caught up in the end result of any one event.

They BEcome proactive in nurturing their dreams into realty and simply keep moving forward one beautiful step at a time. 

Once stepped into Harmony, 

please work from the Ground up:

Ground your energy in the here and now

Know you ARE safe to BE you.

You CAN create all you desire by simply LIVING

You have great joy-filled power that also protects you as you walk your path.

Loving Self first is not selfish, but imperative thus allowing all paradigms within and beyond to heal; including your mindset

By tapping into your amazing intuition, you can see how you are designed to BE

Connecting with the 1,000 petal lotus brings a sense of peace that at this moment feels like a concept.

Re-Connecting with your higher self at the Soul Star will offer constant reminders of whom you are and WHY you are at this moment in time. 


Honestly, Shamael has never been quite this chatty! LOVE this and will reference often myself. Hope you do too. 

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The Divine Feminine is Rising, what does that mean for the Divine Masculine? May 01 2019

As the Divine Feminine energies continue to rise, some are beginning to wonder if the Divine Masculine is being obliterated.

This blog is coming from a very interesting dialogue we had going in our sacred space on Facebook. If you care to join us, click away! It started with a rather simple enough question which was if there are angels and archangels and they are obviously doing 'light work' why is there still evil, lower energies and demons? 

The answer may be simple, but can go deep. The answer? Balance. As above, so below, light/dark, on/off, up/down, feminine/masculine and well you get the idea. As soon as I mentioned the feminine/masculine relationship, the dialogue turned on a dime and took off.

The Divine Feminine IS Rising...what does that mean?

The Divine Feminine, for the most part, has been ignored. She has been so neglected she has become tarnished. However, NOW she rises and honestly I don't believe that goddess will ever be put completely back in the bottle again.

When did the Divine Feminine start to rise? Who knows if there was a specific event or time. One can say it was when women got the vote. Some could say that it was when women started working outside the home in earnest (at a lower pay of course). Some could say it started when... 

Does it really matter when it started? The fact is SHE is rising and rising gloriously to partner with the Divine Masculine. This is not a scenario where one is better than the other. Never has been, never will BE. I'm sure may beg to differ, but at the core it is about BALANCE.

BALANCE? Yep. Balance. This is how this blog post started to remind one of the nuances of balance. Things that exist in your day to day life; on/off, up/down, yin/yang, hot/cold, good/bad, etc. This balance is necessary for the very existence of life. One appreciates the warmth of a fire on a cold day; just as one appreciates a cold drink on a hot day. 

Haven't you ever been on a see saw, either as child or in recent times? If one is bigger than the other, there is imbalance. If there is only one, the other sits idly and wonders when the fun will begin. Balance. 

Balance and its Nuances

When one is more in balance, they are in the essence of BEing. For while they are in balance, they live from their center, the heart. So often yang energy is associated with fire, ego, aggression, receiving and more. The yin is associated with gentleness, intuitive, giving and more. If ALL are receiving (yang) who is doing the giving? If ALL are giving (yin) who is receiving?


This goes to the good vs. evil thoughts. While some pine for life filled with lollipops and unicorns, many would fail to offer gratitude for such a life because one often becomes complacent. Complacency is a funny critter. It lulls one into excepting that things are they way they should be no matter the situation. So many stay in a 'bad' relationship, job etc for 'The Devil you know is better than the devil you don't.' Fear of change. Fear of BEing courageous. Fear of BEing yourself, quirks and all. If one is complacent for too long, lethargy enters and one literally becomes exhausted. 

Why do they become exhausted? Believe it or not, it takes work to be miserable aka complacent! It takes work to be anything but yourself! Were you born miserable? Of course not. Were you born angry? Of course not!

Life, of course, happens. There can be unsavory moments, events that can leave one whirling or wallowing. I'll not dispute that. However, if one wallows for too long, it can begin to feel better to stay there vs. BEing once more. 

This is where the Divine Feminine comes in. Through the powerful yin energy this essence exudes, one CAN begin to honor who they are, their gifts and how to BE once again. Will this happen overnight? Of course not; one didn't hit the bottom of the well overnight now did they?

It is the Balance of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine. With the union of both one values each aspect as presented for what it may be.

Sooo... how does this fair for the Divine Masculine if all this stuff is about I AM Woman hear me roar?

As stated above, it's exhausting to do it all a certain way or by one's self. It is about balance; a partnership in this case so both may lead and both may take moments to rejuvenate. 

To bring in balance, things often, I hesitate to say must, implode. In order for calm to enter, chaos jumps in to break it up. During this upheaval, the phoenix rises from the ashes, joined.

It is the union, the sacred geometry symbol, the Vesica Piscis:

 It is this union of all. Look closely at this image. The circles are intertwined. They are not separate. One is not larger than the other. One is not bolder than the other. 

They are balanced. 

Each one supports the other, while maintaining their independence, their quirks, their power, their essence. It is not about one over-powering another (that's been done for centuries and the times are changing). It's time to drop the mantles that have been put upon ALL; male must provide for family, female must tend hearth, male must be aggressive, female must be submissive. 


It's time for balance. 

What Angel do I call upon for this Balance to enter?

Initially I would have suggested Haniel, The Angel of Manifestation for his sigil is reminiscent of the vesica picis and it is the union of Heave and Earth:

However, after chatting with The Angelics, The Gang, Sandalphon and Metatron stepped forward. The Dynamic Duo as I call them. For together they represent balance. As Sandalphon is connected to the Earthstar Chakra and his twin to the Soulstar Chakra, they meld in your center - the heart. 

As above, so below joining forces through Love. 

Who am I to argue with that logic? 


  Archangel Metatron's Mandala                       Archangel Sandalphon's Mandala

I am asked often, what candle I'm burning and why. Today ought to come as no surprise, Mary Magdalene. Why? Simply because for me, she represents a true phoenix rising from the ashes and emerging as the Divine Feminine. Want your own? Click away

Ask, ALLOW AND Receive April 24 2019

Many of you reading this have at least heard of the Law of Attraction. If you haven't, not to fear. The Law of Attraction simply states that one attracts energetically what one is releasing into the Universe.

Gratitude creates more for which to BE grateful.

Love creates more for which to LOVE.

Fear? Creates more doubt and alas fear. (not capitalizing this word intentionally to keep its vibration lower)

Worthiness creates a vaster funnel that is directed towards you.

And so on. 

Let's Address Worthiness

So many, in fact I'd hazard a guess that the overwhelming majority of the world's universe, have an internal unknown gauge of what they feel worthy in receiving. 

Every single one of us. 

Why is the meter lower than what we actually deserve? This is a great question and one that warrants an answer and honestly could fill a book. There are many factors that come into play in this Meter Game:

  • Can't take time out for myself - have other obligations
  • Can't take time from somebody else to allow help towards me; somebody must need this help more, aka more worthy. (Angels hang their heads in this one and shake it with eyes rolling)
  • What if I really don't deserve it? I might as well keep the bar lower so as not to disappoint myself
  • And so on...

Any of these ring a bell for you?

Allow me to share a story:

A few years back I was vending at a show and it was set up day. My husband wasn't able to assist for this one (a true rarity) and my goddess helpers were gleefully occupied elsewhere for the day. I had six plus hours to set up; therefore, I was in no hurry and was rather enjoying the process.

A young man, a volunteer, offered to help. I of course not really needing it, I declined. 

He stopped.

He smiled. 

He said,

"You are a strong and powerful woman. You can do anything.

Will you allow me to help you?"


Of course I ultimately did. Lesson learned and I joked about it the entire weekend that I allowed this help to not only occur, but BE received via an open heart.

Will you Allow?

Good Girls are often told that they cannot put themselves first. Pashaw. If you don't, at least periodically, how will you ever get to where you desire to go and BE? If you are consistently allowing others to cut in front of you in lines (metaphorical as well as literal) how can you ever 'cash in'?

Of course you will be forever in line, waiting and waiting annnnd waaiiting...

How to Raise Your Worthiness Vibration?

It's rather easy to raise your vibration. In a nutshell, step into GRATITUDE. With a Big Ol' Capital G.

Many of us have had hardships or mishaps or things not going according to plan in our lives. For example, we lived in our beach home for close to five years. While this was a choice, we had much ... in storage. As time went on, we missed certain articles and actually began to pine for them. 

Fast forward, we moved to the New Digs. As the boxes were unloaded from the moving van, I found myself giddily excited to see HER again. You see, we have a 4foot tall  statue of Kwan Yin that I missed beyond words. When she emerged, I cried, yes, literally cried for joy at her re-emergence. As she was wheeled into the backyard the joy that overtook me was palpable. Her place is sacred and every time I see her wave at me from the kitchen, I smile.

This is the kind of joy I'm talking about! Joy at a flower blooming. Just this week I was once again giddy to see the peony bush in bloom! There was one particular bloom that caught my eye; it was literally blooming just off the ground vs being high on a branch. What a perfect message for each one of us; Bloom From The Ground UP! Build up the Joy from the ground. This creates a base that BEcomes so expansive you find joy in the simplest of things:

  • Clean Clothes
  • A warm bed in which to snuggle
  • Vibrant food - no matter from where it hales
  • A sunny day
  • A rainy day
  • Rainbows!

This list is virtually endless for every life is filled with opportunities to embrace JOY and lets it permeate deeply within your psyche. Too often complacency can settle; the blessed TV is on for hours, excuses to not go for a walk because there is too much to do, chores to be attended, and so on. Choose JOY and I can guarantee your Worthiness Meter will rise and rise quickly. 

Here's a tip, when you take out that time to meditate, put you first in various situations, you have ample time for all that needs to be done.


All it Takes is YOU saying YES

Sure, Sure, Sure... this is much easier said than done, this whole saying YES to self. 

I get it.

However, IF you don't start now by saying YES to you, nobody else can for you. 


Doesn't matter how much they offer you, lead you, introduce you and more. If you don't say YES to you, you will miss most, if not all of those blessed opportunities coming your way because you allowed someone else to cut in line in front of you.

Like how I wrapped those up together? 

Now is the time, more than ever to say YES...


Your gratitude rises. It rises so much that even if you have an off day, you don't sink. It rises so even if you have an off day, it is better than a good day from years past. It rises so even you can spot an opportunity a mile away as it floats your way; no more chasing opportunities. They chase you.

Isn't it time?

What Angel Raises Your Joy Vibration?

Jophiel. She is not called the Joy-Filled Angel for nothing!

I have her candle burning brightly near me at this exact moment and her JOY is real. Her JOY is powerful. Her JOY is reminds one to live in the moment. 

When you are this deliriously happy, you don't even give fear or anxiety a second glance. When you are this happy, you know ALL. IS. POSSIBLE. Why? BEcause now, more than ever you BElieve in yourself. You BElieve in your mission. You BElieve you are worthy to live that mission exactly as your heart desires. 

It's that easy. It's that powerful and BElongs to you. 

Will you allow? 

If you still feel squeamish about this whole gratitude thing, I cannot recommend enough Jophiel products; candles, medallions, bracelets, sun drops, misters and droppers.

For now, meditate with her energy via her sacred mandala:

Archangel Jophiel Sacred Mandala


In the aftermath of Notre Dame and Her Message for me - for ALL April 17 2019 1 Comment

Like many, my heart sank when I heard of the news of Notre Dame ablaze. Her Lady (for that is Notre Dame means) was burning! We had been blessed to visit Paris years ago and yes attended mass in this very sacred place. 

Like many, for my students and I have been going back and forth, we felt a sense of calm almost a detachment from the fires. Now this may sound cold and harsh, but it's not. For what is a building but a vessel. What is a vessel? A container to hold, preserve something.

I chatted with The Magdalene quite a bit on that day and I will share as much as I can what was told to me, but first, let's set the stage a bit.

Notre Dame Cathedral

Notre Dame Cathedral, like many sacred sites was not a new location to hold sacred ceremonies. In fact, Chris H. Hardy shares in her blog (yes I had to hunt and dig to find some sort of proof based on my intuitive findings) that indeed Notre Dame Cathedral was previously the Gaul Pillar of the Nautes - a Temple to the Goddess Diana. For those unfamiliar with Diana, she is the Goddess of Animals and The Hunt and is often overlapped energetically with Goddess Artemis. Artemis is also the Goddess of The Hunt and wild/domesticated animals. She is also the daughter of Zeus who is King of the Gods. 

What is special about this particular location? I know, but have yet to find written proof that this location is a Nexus Point; a location or intersection if you will, of energies. I deep in my heart believe it the nexus point of at least two ley lines that bring forth the energies of the Divine Feminine. 

Think about it, if Notre Dame was previously the Gaul Pillar of the Nautes, both are dedicated to women; Diana/Artemis and Our Lady. Our Lady? Yes, that is literally what Notre Dame is translated to mean. Many believe that Our Lady is to mean Mother Mary. However, I believe, as do many others it is Mary Magdalene. 

Mary Magadalene's connection to Notre Dame

Hear me out in this theory in which I am not alone.

If you feel connected to Mary Magdalene, you are in great company. Magdala may mean from Magdala as the location, but Magdala also means Tower. As you begin to BEcome more observant in icongraphy, you will BEgin to notice more and more towers as they connect to Mary Magdalene. 

Notre Dame Cathedral

 What graces the front of Notre Dame? True many things, but one is often drawn to the TWO towers atop the cathedral. TWO. Why two? Many feel/know that she was indeed married to Yeshua. The Divine Union. What is a couple but a union of TWO. Balanced in energy. Strong and empowered and equal.

Together they form the union that creates the base below them. All else is dwarfed by their presence.



Another nod to The Magdalene, as there are many within is a statue of a woman just in the entrance in the tympanum.

This woman holds a banner and an urn, is crowned and stands tall, empowered as she looks upon you. How does one know this could be The Magdalene? Look over her. There are yet four more towers. This is a woman of power and means for she wears a money pouch. Mary Magdalene, those paintings known to BE her often include such things as urns, towers and money. Why the urn? it holds sacred oils used only for ceremonial work. 

There is movement within the statue for she is not simply standing, but her right foot placement indicates movement forward. In other words, this is woman on the move and is quite comfortable in her power.

Truly a representation of the Divine Feminine.

Do I have your attention now?

It may be years before anyone is allowed back into the Cathedral, if ever in our lifetime, but do your own research. Once you jump in that rabbit hole it is hard to deny the presence of The Magdalene within Notre Dame Cathedral. 

Healing and Moving Forward after the Fires

Honestly I could not watch the fires consume the building. I saw more than enough via social media. However it did force me to go within and meditate and I promise I'll share a bit of what she told me in a few. However, look at the image below as shared via social media:


Most quickly see an image of a person. If you can't, soften your eyes a bit. Many jump to say it is Jesus/Yeshua. I'll put it out there; Is it Him or is it Her? 

Notre Dame will rebuild. Many have already come forward to donate massive amounts of money to get it started. 

Mary Magdalene's Message

As I went into meditation and began to ask her the whys, she was quick to jump in with the following:

As with all things, one gets accustomed to what is before them and no longer see the true message or significance of an event. Think about your day, do you no longer see the clutter on your kitchen counter? Do you no longer stop and see the beauty of what is before in nature? Do you no longer see what is what is literally right in front of you?

The same goes with my cathedral.

Yes mine.

The Divine Feminine is rising. It has been rising for decades, but now more than ever more need to see and hear The Truth. Why does it need to rise? Balance. This is not a situation where women overpower men. Rather it is a union built upon equality. We are the living representation of the sacred union displayed in the Vesica Piscis. Each maintaining its own individuality, but creating strength through Love in their union.

Regarding the fires of Notre Dame; many sacred objects were saved from the fire for future energy work via viewing. The energy that is conveyed through all sacred artifacts is the energy of Love. Those held in Notre Dame are no exception.

That is what I represent.


For Love has no boundaries.

Love has no conditions.

Love is ALL.

As this cathedral was built upon Love; the true union of both, it shall be rebuilt and endure. As the truth begins to emerge about me and my beloved, the artifacts saved will take on a new meaning for the truth shall emerge to BE seen and heard by the masses. 

We, as you, are the Phoenix Rising from the Ashes to shine more brightly and empower more people through nothing more than Love. 


In Closing

I do believe she has called us to arms! Arms open wide for hugging, empowering and of course LOVING. She has shared with me many times that the energy of LOVE is empowering. LOVE starts within by acknowledging and loving one's self first and foremost. By honoring one's gifts and by not belittling self or others. It is an understanding that there are many viewpoints and roads that lead to Love, but once arrived all speak the same language. 

One learns to BE. One learns to listen vs. hearing. Listening with not just an open mind, but more importantly an open heart. Accepting where another is within their journey and honoring it and never rushing them to another point. Holding space if necessary to allow them to regroup and take timid steps forward. Encouraging them to do so, but never challenging them to do so. Never telling them to get over it and move along. All emotions have validity and the sooner they are honored, the sooner one can move forward with greater confidence. 

Perseverance and endurance are required for this Love Journey. Standing tall with a smile on your face, tears in your eyes for you are filled with great joy and of course Love that infects others to acquire the same feeling and BEing. 

As I write this, Her candle  is burning brighter. The energy of the room is quite full and I am at peace. As I do not have a mandala for her, yet, I offer Chamuel The Angel of Self Love to help you hold space for YOU in LOVE.

Archangel Chamuel Mandala



Good Girls Can Be Tenacious, but first... April 03 2019

As you know, I'm a self appointed Good Girl. While it is a badge worth wearing, it's not worth owning. 


BEcause it can hold one back. If a goddess totally embraces her Good Girl persona, well then, she must always BE good. No more rebel, system buster, leader and more. For Good Girls over the decades, by society standards, are submissive and afraid, yes I said afraid, of shining their gorgeousness whether it be physical, mental, emotional or spiritual gorgeousness.

Let's stop this, shall we?

Why Stop BEing Just A Good Girl?

You are multi-faceted, yes? Can you not walk and chew gum at the same time? Of course of you can. Of course you can!

Singer and songwriter, Peggy Lee said it best in her song:

I can wash out forty four pairs of socks and have 'em hangin' out on the line
I can starch and iron two dozens shirts 'fore you can count from one to nine
I can scoop up a great big dipper full of lard from the drippin's can
Throw it in the skillet, go out and do my shopping, be back before it melts in the pan
'Cause I'm a woman! W-O-M-A-N, I'll say it again

I can rub and scrub til this old house is shinin' like a dime
Feed the baby, grease the car, and powder my face at the same time
Get all dressed up, go out and swing 'til four A.M. and then
Lay down at five, jump up at six, and start all over again
'Cause I'm a woman! W-O-M-A-N, I'll say it again


The Many Faces of Good Girls

Look around you. If you are sitting by yourself at the moment, google Goddess Faces. Every single one of those goddesses is different from the other. From skin color, to size, to hair, to age and well you get the idea. Each one is not only physically gorgeous, but exudes self confidence and quiet power that draws you in. 

Each one of them tells a brilliant story; herstory. Each one of them is tenacious - having a quality of determination and never giving up or letting go.

Why? For she recognized her innate wisdom and needed to share it with others. Some via large platforms as public speaking, books and more. Some on a quieter more inner circle platform; for those with eyes to see and BE encouraged to BE their authentic self. Both have great value for each creates a ripple for others to give witness to and empower themselves to come out and play.

Each ripple creates more ripples. Before you know it, you ARE affecting so many more than you personally come in contact with. Therefore, what is the image you are putting forth?

Empowerment or Belittlement?

Things to ponder.

 What Are Your Many Faces?

Now, I'm not talking about make-up vs. make-up less face. I'm talking about your face

When you look at another, you can often get an immediate glimpse of their psyche at that particular moment. For example, I saw a practitioner yesterday and  today. She is gleefully working on my shoulder. 

Her first comment today was you look so different; calm more at peace.

While I had on my first time to meet you face on yesterday, the pain I was in was evident (it's a shoulder thing). Through her gifts she is helping muscles to relax; much less pain and therefore my face and body movements display that. 

Look at yourself in the mirror. This is not a critique of what hairs are turning gray or wrinkles emerging or bags blossoming.

Instead it is a look into your soul. Is that soul happy? If it is, KUDOS to you!

If it is not, what could you do to lessen that load. What could you do to brighten your day? What could you do that says YES to you? 

More things to ponder. 

Look it, we've all had crap happen in our lives; death, dissolutions, arguments, illness (to self or loved one) and more.

On the flip side, we've all had glorious things happen in our lives; children, marriage, recognition for our innate gifts, sunny days, vacations, flowers, lollipops and unicorns (just making sure you are still reading ;) ).

It's what we focus on or allow to take over that can de-rail what we wish to do. 

It's Time

It's time to take a more in depth look into our psyche and remember our individaul WHYS.

  • Why do I wish to this or that?
  • Why do I wish this or that to happen?
  • Why do I desire better health?
  • Why do I desire more money and less bills?
  • Why do I wish a partner to share my life?
  • WHY

Why bother  doing all thinking thought provoking deep work? Because then you have answers. Then you gain greater clarity of what truly motivates you. Once you have answered the WHYS - it's important to keep asking in one arena until you hit a nerve that makes you think harder and more profoundly - you gain clarity. You gain and remember your tenacity. You move forward with great grace for now you have a mission and it is going to be much harder to derail you from this point forward. 

That's why. 

What Angel to Call Upon for This Mission?

Uriel, Angel of Safety, once again comes forward.


Because he, like no other will help you to feel safe to BE you. The real you. The authentic you. The glorious you. 

Focus on his energy coming forth in his mandala below. You are welcomed to meditate on its energy to help unleash what you have been hiding.

It's time for you to come out and play now.

Good Girls Can BE.... A Rebel and Proud of It! March 27 2019

As the eldest and only child for seven years and the 'girl'... I adopted and embraced the essence of Good Girl for decades.

You know, the girl who says yes because she has too out of obligation. The good girl who doesn't dare raise her freak flag for the fear of being well freakish. The good girl who rarely rocks the boat because life is better when calm.

Does this ring a bell for you and your life?

Shifting the Paradigm of BEing a Good Girl

This energy has been building for years and in various small pockets around the globe it has emerged and blossoming to never turn back. 

This hit a nerve while traveling through France last summer. I had the great fortune to connect with many, many amazing people and one in particular whom I shall call Susan. Susan is a grandma and at first glance very proper, unassuming and rather conservative. OH NO... looks deceive! The more I chatted with Susan the more I realized it was her safety persona. This woman is a flat out rebel!

Stories abounded as she shared snippets of her life. Someone dared to give her the moniker of Bad Nana. This really rubbed me the wrong way for what was she doing that was bad?


She was breaking molds of what a proper grandma ought to act like. She was breaking molds and bending rules since a young lass at private school. She was a rebel. That is the name I proudly gave her... Rebel Nana. She questioned it at first, but when I explained that she was actually a role model and to not allow title, age, etc to define one's self. She LOVED it... or so I am led to believe.

This one goddess taught much... so much simply by BEing. BEing glorious, sassy rebellious and I LOVED it. Why? She is BEing genuine to her. 

Isn't that what so many desire?

A Good Girl has been

For centuries it has been expected and doled out that men and women can do certain things and to stay put in those lanes and how dare you skip to another lane. 

Those defined good girls followed their dictated path and some quite passive about it. Others? Dare to bend if not break molds by BEcoming trailblazers in fields across the the spectrum. Fields from aviation, medicine, space, and so much more. 

Women gathered and won the right to vote in the United States. Women continue to gather and collaborate to create. Create change, create true equality - lip service is no longer an option. Good Girls are doing this and so much more. 

What about Life as a Good Girl?

BEing a good girl no longer means one has to bend and succumb to what is expected of them. Does this mean one comes out with guns blazing? Of course not - not in the metaphorical or literal sense. It does mean one first must realize what their chosen whys are.

  • Why do I desire this or that?
  • Why do I wish to live here or there?
  • Why do I prefer...?
  • Why?

When one begins to dig deep and no longer deny who they are by definition of their gifts is a BIG step in itself. Just today another goddess reached out because she has been approached since a child as one folks feel safe to share their story. Why? She is a natural healer, highly empathic and more. However, she has been in denial for decades which so saddens me. However she now recognizes some of her whys and can no longer hide. Thus we begin working together to help her remember her beautiful essence so she then helps many others.


What are your whys? If you are not sure of even one, it's time we chat to unleash a few to start and grow from there. Why? BEcause it is just one of the many things I LOVE doing; helping others to shine their essence. 

Good Girls and Angels

There is so much to chat about in this one arena alone that I've actually had a somewhat difficult time isolating just a few examples to help get you juiced up about YOU.

What angel did I go to first? Uriel hands down. Why? Uriel is the Angel of Safety. He is the consummate winged reminder that YOU are Safe to BE YOU. It is no longer acceptable to pretend to BE someone you are not. It is no longer acceptable to hide in hopes it might go away. It is no longer acceptable to dull your gorgeous, beautiful light.

Why? BEcause your light is so needed at this moment at this time - yes like right now.

That's WHY.

Isn't it time you embraced your inner Rebel?