Life can be a funny thing, can't it?
We yearn for different, better, etc. and yet we fight against the change. We crave the change and then run from it when it's presented. And yet we are constantly changing and evolving. We really can steer this vehicle to our advantage. We can evolve with more grace.
Please try to let that angst go... just a wee bit. Just this week we had a fantastic discussion in our Authorization Course conference call. What became very obvious was that no matter the situation, most would rather stay with what they know vs. the unknown.
The unknown is just that, unknown. It's vast. It's open ended. It's scary. Oh, but how fun is that?! You get to re-create how you wish to live your life! In other words, you get to live life on your terms.
It's loving yourself MORE.
It's in this Love Fest of Self that the soul truly evolves.
To put it in hopefully a less confrontational way; hasn't your diet changed over the years? If you are like any red-blooded human, you've been on a diet at some point. Whether the diet lasted to meet your goals or was only a passing fancy; you desired change.
Likewise, haven't your taste in clothes also changed? I'm preparing to go out for a very nice dinner tonight with my husband and came across a dress that had me wondering why it's even still in the closet. Off to the donation pile it has gone.
These outwardly changes are just a bit of an indicator of what we are processing internally.
When those internal shifts are acknowledged, greater change is then reflected outwardly. Think to a time when you stood up for yourself. Whether it was an abusive relationship that you ended (makes me very happy you did so). To ending a bullying situation because being a doormat was no longer an option. To perhaps simply speaking up and no longer desiring to be the lovely wallflower. You got more comfortable with who you are why you here.
You spoke up.
Maybe, you used the Askfirmation
Why is it safe for me to BE me?
This one Askfirmation alone will change your world for the better for the rest of your life. Why? The Universe conspires to work in your favor due to the positive question you are now asking. You take your power back bit by bit and you evolve.
You come home to BE.
It is taking that road less traveled. Perhaps being a leader in your field of choice. Being a leader can be lonely! You walk proudly ahead and never give up on your dreams. You pave the way so others may take an easier and smoother path. You follow through. Is each new adventure a door opener so others may find you? Maybe. Sometimes it is more a private adventure for you to better understand who you are and why you are here. No matter if you are a chosen leader, or not, you are, through your actions, teaching others how to BE.
Simply by BEing you, you are a leader. You are an inspiration.
You better understand it is about the journey and not the destination. We truly never know what is around the corner at the soul level, but we do keep moving forward. Our soul itches to BE and in the process of BEing, we chose a path and we grow and we dance through those unknown turns.
Rarely is path straight for long. Wouldn't life be boring if it was always so neatly laid out? I think so too. However, a straight path is presented periodically it can be thoroughly enjoyed to catch a breath and revel in how far one has traveled.
We have all had undesirable stuff happen to us. Some more horrific than others and I am in no way belittling the horrific. However, if we can take each situation for what it offers us at a soul level and grow from that, we get to never experience that disharmony again.
It's taking that road less traveled that you lead. You lead through your example of living life to the fullest; on your terms. You no longer strive to impress or mimic others. You realize and own the fact that you don't wish to be like them.
You desire to BE you.
THAT is when the road less traveled turns to LOVE.
Love of self.
Love with no conditions.
You better accept your foibles and your human imperfections; and while not making fun of self, you acknowledge those beautiful imperfections and realize this is just of the many ingredients that make the complete, beautiful package known as you. This is where Chamuel, The Angel of Self Love, is your winged bestie. She will continue to remind you to put you first. She will remind you to conduct Acts of Self Love that leave you rejuvenated, replenished and loving self more.
As you continue to evolve and come back to self, the universe at large notices without you saying a blessed word. Their response? Loving you more for who you are, not what you are going to do for them.
Why? Because you are evolving.
Please leave any comments below and feel free to share the LOVE!